Mystery of Sappy Movies

i don't understand!
i don't understand how it is
possible that
people fall in love with each other
after a few minutes!
in these stories, these movies,
people avow their undying love
after mere seconds of,
well, yes, incredibly flirtatious conversations.
i don't believe this can happen.
i refuse to believe it!
wait a second...
there is a world of difference
between
falling in love and
being in love.